I come from a family of crafters and bakers and people who somehow have most of their (handmade) gifts ready by late November. Meanwhile, it’s mid-December and I haven’t made a single German Christmas treat, the house is decorated at about 30 percent capacity, and I definitely forgot to light the first Advent candle entirely.
But…I also still want the holidays to be super special for my kidlets, and to make this time of year memorable for them.
So this week’s issue is for anyone who wants festive without the mental load. Magic, but lazy. Memories, but realistic. Joy, but with a bedtime. Alright, alright, let’s be realistic, but here are a few low-lift ideas (including one extra this week) that make the season feel special —> minus the second-job energy.
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💗 The One-Candle Dinner Ritual
👉 Forget decking the halls. Light one candle at dinner every night until New Year’s. (Let your kiddos take turns if they're old enough to 'help.')
It’s calm, warm, and magically resets the vibe of a chaotic winter evening… without requiring a single craft bin.'
For extra bonding, have each person answers one sentence:
“Something I noticed today…”
“Something that felt good…”
🧘♀️ The “Kids Cook the Simmer Pot” Hack
👉 A festive simmer pot "craft" sounds like a lot of effort, but here’s all that's involved:
Prep an orange with pre-poked holes, hand it to your kid, and let them stick cloves into the holes. This old-school activity was a favorite in our childhood and makes for festive décor, then does double duty as a cooking project too.
For the simmer pot version:
Let your kiddos dump in cinnamon sticks, your clove studded oranges, add water and vanilla if you’re fancy, and boom. Your house smells like you spent 4 hours baking, when really you supervised for 45 seconds.
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🤖 The 2-Minute Holiday Letter You Can Make in Bed
👉 Scroll your Photos → filter by your kids → hit the voice recorder in GPT → narrate whatever you see:
“Summer vacation… she started soccer… the baby walked… my sister visited… that weekend in Tahoe… oh right, preschool.”
Then say: “Turn this into a warm, simple holiday letter with only the biggest highlights.”
GPT trims the chaos into something short, readable, and shockingly lovely. Then you email it, and you get big kudos for being on top of things.
🎒The “Giving Minute” (A One-Click Family Giving Ritual)
👉 Want to give back and involve your kids without turning it into a whole production?
Choose one 60-second option:
Pick an item from a shelter’s Amazon Wish List
Let each kid choose a $1–$5 micro-donation online
Have kids choose one outgrown toy to donate
Drop a bag of diapers/wipes in a local bin
Just a tiny tradition that actually sticks.
💼 This Week’s Work WTF
Inspired by real life events.
Scenario:
Someone cheerfully says, “We should meet before break - I’m wide open on the 23rd!”
What We Wish We Could Say:
“I love that for you.”
Steal This Response:
“Hey! I'm not available then. If this is time-sensitive, feel free to send over details and I’ll take a quick look before I wrap up. Otherwise, let’s reconnect after the break.”
K that’s all. You’re the best and we love you.
-CK “Still Not Doing Elf on the Shelf” Fuller (Editor) & the JB Crew 🫡
P.S. Eagle-eyed readers might notice we appeared to time-travel in last week’s P.S. So for real next week: WFH While the Kids Are Off — a survival briefing for winter break, Wi-Fi wars, and making it through Zoom calls with children in the room.