I'm not sure when or why, but somehow the entire months of November and December have seemingly morphed into one entity known as "The Holidays." Dun dun dun.
As someone who loves the warmth and nostalgia this time of year brings (and who saw her farming grandparents embrace this time as an opportunity to rest and reflect) it also frustrates me that somehow, these last months of the year often feel more busy than ever. Between the actual events on the calendar, and the silent pressure of making this a **special time** for your family, it's freaking exhausting.
So this week, we’re going preemptive. Call it your Pre-Holiday Burnout Buffer Plan: three quick ways to protect your peace before the potlucks and PTO fundraisers hit full throttle.
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💸 Pre-Set Your Holiday ‘Sanity Budget’
👉 This one's less about monetary -and more about mental- savings. Before the sign-up sheets multiply, grab a notebook (or your Notes app) at dinner and as a family, list everything you think will pop up this season: school concerts, travel, family visits or traditions, cookie swaps, photo sessions, class parties, work events, etc.
Then, add any estimated costs if you're feeling ambitious. Finally, have everyone that isn't overwhelmed by more than 2 options (looking at you, toddlers) vote for their top “must-dos.”
Limit accordingly based on your family's preferences and there’s your sanity “budget”- time, money, and energy included.
💗 Mini Traditions That Actually Refill Your Tank
👉 This year’s goal: minimum effort, maximum comfort. Practice one ritual that makes the season feel cozy without becoming a production.
A few ideas:
Friday night rewatch of the same cozy movie until everyone can quote it.
Mini pie night with frozen tarts + whipped cream (or just baking with store-bought cookie-dough is A-ok).
Quiet hour: no talking, no screens - everyone colors, journals, or zones out.
Candlelight Dinners: lighting candles is the entire action here, but one with major ambiance.
The point isn’t to create memories; it’s to keep the ones you actually enjoy alive.
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🎒 Let Your Kid Be the Party Liaison
👉 Your kid can’t host Thanksgiving (yet) but they can own one task from start to finish.
Depending on age, have them write place cards or a menu, set out plates, turn on lights, fold napkins, or even curate the holiday playlist (this one's for the brave parents out there). It’s one less thing for you (ish), but more importantly, they’ll feel like part of the event … not just a tiny guest who keeps asking for snacks.
K that’s all. You’re the best and we love you.
-CK “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like Chaos” Fuller (Editor) & the JB Crew 🫡
P.S. Next week: It’s officially pitch black before dinner, and bedtime chaos is creeping in earlier and louder. We’ve got hacks to survive the seasonal shift with better lighting, smarter snacks, and a few multitasking miracles.