Thereās WFH.
Then thereās WFH with a toddler narrating their snack needs in the background of your team standup. (We are currently in the grip of an āappleā obsession. Apple = bell peppers, cucumbers, most crunchy things, and occasionally actual apples.)
We know most working parents arenāt doing full-time caregiving and full-time work at the exact same time, but when the primary caretaker needs a break (or your kid Houdinis their way across the house to find you) the chaos lands in your lap.
This weekās issue is about tactical moves for those ācan-you-justā moments, so you can still hit send before your coffee hits cold.
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š The goal isnāt perfect silence. Mostly because we know thatās impossible. Itās a clear, kid-understandable signal that right now = not the time.
Try one of these:
š· A red bandana on the doorknob (college dorm nostalgia, but make it parental)
š· A certain lamp turned on = āquiet zone activatedā
š· Your kid-friendly (aka noise canceling) headphones = āplease donātā
Make it work:
ā²ļø Pair it with a visible timer (Time Timer, Alexa countdown, egg timer?)
š Let your kid leave you post-its instead of interrupting. Turns out, thatās surprisingly satisfying for both of you
Youāre not being strict. Youāre being smart about protecting the two things you need most: attention span and patience.
š Taking a lunch break with your kid ā not despite them ā can flip your whole day.
Hereās how to make it low-effort and high-impact:
š¹ Keep a āLunch Outsideā bin packed: wipes, paper plates, picnic blanket = done
š¹ Inside version: light a candle, dim the lights, call it āfancy lunchā
š¹ Let them help set it up or pick the menu (with pre-approved options)
Itās a reset for both of you - movement, connection, screen break. You get back to work slightly more human. They feel like they got your full attention⦠at least, for 23 whole minutes.
Did you know? š§ JuiceBox is built by a tiny team of working parents just like you. We curate and write this stuff so you donāt have to but weād LOVE for you to get in on the action.
š¬ Got a time-saving tip or a chaos-fighting hack of your own? Hit reply and share itāwe all need a village, and weād love to hear from you.
šÆāāļø Know a fellow parent who needs this? Forward away or hit this button:
š When your kid wants to be ājust like youā while youāre working, let them. Create a ākid officeā setup nearby that actually keeps them busy.
š¹ Starter kit:
Tray of crayons, paper, stickers, post-its
Old keyboard, calculator, mouse = Big Business energy
PS: Can confirm. These should be old and not anything you need to use again.
Clipboard = CEO status
Bonus task: āDraw what you think I do all dayā (hilarious and slightly brutal)
This gives them ownership, and gives you a chance to power through a work sprint with fewer mid-sentence interruptions. Hey, we didn't say it was fool proof BUT it's definitely worth a try.
Inspired by real life events.
Scenario:
āOh, are you watching the kids while you work?ā
What We Wish We Could Say:
āYes. Iām watching her solve more problems than you have all year.ā
Steal This Response:
āOn the rare occasion. Iāve set up support and blocks that work for our family.ā
Then carry on like the boss you are.
K thatās all. Youāre the best and we love you.
-CK āApple Chefā Fuller (Editor) & the JB Crew š«”