It can’t just be me who feels like the second you unbuckle your kid from the car seat post daycare, the timer starts. You’ve got 3–4 hours (MAX) to feed, bathe, bond, not lose it, and ideally end the night with everyone vertical and vaguely clean. No pressure.
This week is for anyone whose post-work evenings feel like a full-contact sport- pick just one of these to try and let us know how they worked for you. (I am definitely implementing #2 in my house pronto.)
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🧘♀️ Mood Setters > Meltdowns with the “No Talk” Car Ride
👉 You know what’s not helping anyone ease into the night? A barrage of questions the moment you hit the car.
Try this instead on occasion:
Pick a consistent, calming song (or let your kid pick one — even if it’s weird).
Declare the drive home a “no-talking zone” until the song ends.
Everyone decompresses in silence with a bit of sensory reset.
Whether you’re coming from preschool, soccer, or your last Zoom of the day, this mini ritual shifts the energy before the real chaos begins.
🌀 Worth Trying: Our pick is “Weightless” by Marconi Union — supposedly scientifically tested to reduce anxiety by 65% — but also not a vibe killer.
💬 Divide & Rotate: The Split-Swap Strategy
👉 Evenings shouldn’t feel like you’re silently tallying who did more. Here’s an approach we’ve seen making the rounds on social:
Step 1: Dinner Hour
👩🍳 Parent A makes dinner
🛝 Parent B takes the kid(s) outside (walk, driveway chalk, soccer goal with a laundry basket — whatever works). Even better that they’re getting a bunch of benefits from outdoor time!
Step 2: After Dinner
🧽 Parent B does dishes + cleanup
🛁 Parent A handles bath and bedtime
✅ Both parents get solo time with the kids — and solo time without them
✅ There’s built-in transition time between chaos and calm
✅ No more “I’m doing everything” spiral — because you both did something
📅 Pro tip: Lock in predictable roles by day (e.g. Mondays are your cook day, Wednesdays are cleanup day) to avoid daily negotiations.
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⚡ Dinner Drama? Flip the Script
👉 If dinner’s melting down before it even starts, skip it. We’re serious.
Try this instead:
🛁 Bath → 🧴 PJs → 🍽 Dinner
(Yes, even if that means dinner happens on the couch with a giant napkin tucked into your kid’s pajamas.)
Soft clothes + clean skin + full belly = a better bedtime.
Here’s your friendly reminder that there’s no rule that says dinner has to come before bath. Break the sequence to break the spiral.
🗣 Plus: Make it a named tradition — “Reverse Night” or “Pajama Picnics” — so it feels fun, not like a failure.
K that’s all. You’re the best and we love you.
-CK “Let’s Eat in PJs” Fuller (Editor) & the JB Crew 🫡